Flirty Tips For Text Messaging
There's not much of a difference between flirting through text messaging and flirting in real life...expect for flirting through text messaging is a lot easier.
When it comes to text messaging, women seem to have it pretty easy...Why? Well, for two reason. First, it's because men do most of the approaching and the other is the fact that women are more experienced because they send 100 times more text messages then men do.
This doesn't mean women are good at texting, In fact, women goof up pretty bad in some areas. One area women really mess up in is when they send boring one-liners. For example, lets say a guy sends a message like, "That was a crazy concert last night, how did you like it?" About %50 of the time the women is going to respond with some boring one-liner that has no question attached to it like, "it was good" or "good." Some women think this is playing, "hard to get" when really they are playing, "boring to interact with so move on." In the big picture, a lot of these women are ruining their chances and they have no idea they're doing it.
Now lets go back and give a flirty response that men can work with, for example, "Ya I loved it, you will have to try to keep up with me next time J " As you can see there is a pull to respond back and most importantly, it's FLIRTING!
First, lets get on the same page. Men and women are different when it comes to interacting with each other. Us men get the numbers and then we almost always take the role of initiating the conversation. After years of coaching men on how to be successful with women, I have come to realize that most men have no clue about how to text women.
Here's what I mean. A man will almost always go into default mode when they get a text message from an attractive woman. What happens is they end up sending normal day-to-day messages like they are writing to a friend. For example, messages like, "how was your day?" "I am at school, and I wish it was over" Or "What are you doing?" will burn away any of the attraction that was created. It's boring and it has no feeling to it and ultimately it destroys a lot of the success you can have with women.
Here's the best way to fix the problem, start sending women messages that make them feel something. Let's take a boring line above and plug a little feeling to it "Hey you, I was just in class and the teacher there reminded me of you, except she is a little cuter." Or instead of asking what they are doing, text, "Hey we are having a barbeque later on today, I think I can fit in one more space for you, you in?" We all watch movies because they make us feel something and women especially are not involved in anything unless there emotions are. You will have more and more of the women you desire when you start figuring how to implement these tips into your text messages.
Tyler Tray is the author of "The Ulitmate Texting Guide for men" and has taught hundreds of men on how to be more successful with women.
P.S. Enjoy the free texting tips. Now, what I've noticed in the past few years of coaching men about texting is that most men really don't know how to utilize the power that texting can have on their success with women. Before going any further, you should really ask yourself these questions:
- Do you ever find yourself sending text messages that failed?
- Do you seem to spend way to much time trying to think of the right line to say?
- Do you seem to send messages that don't get the results you want?
If you have answered yes to any of these, don't feel alone. It's becuase most men text women like they are friends and it destroys the attraction.
The hard part is that this kind of texting is ingrained and it's very dificult to step outside of the box and see what really creates the attraction and sexual tension with the women you desire. The worst part is, most men will never see what kind of success they could have had.
This is why I created The Ultimate Texting Guide. You'll discover over 101 time-tested and proven text messages along with seeing exactly what women respond to and how to apply it through texting and day-to-day conversation. At the moment, I'm also including 3 of my top interviews with dating gurus where they cover topics on style, body language, flirting, facebook/myspace secrets, and more. On top of this, I am offering proven steops on how to get phone numbers and the fool proof phone call that always gets you the date.
If you really want to see some drastic improvments in your success with women, you're going to need to step outside of your box and see what women really respond to. I gaurentee if you apply the Secrets found in The Ultimate Texting Guide, your success with women will double. In fact, if that doesn't happen in the next 60 days, I will refund every penny back to you with no questions asked. Just click the link and let's get started on texting some irresistible text messages...
The Ultimate Texting Guide